Men-women Relationship talk #1

This post will be something I don't usually write.
But after reading a few article on men-women.
I have to open the gate and let the city mouth speaks.


There was this one male colleague of mine asking me why I can mingle around with female colleagues looking this smooth considering I'm only started working here for a week. The conversation as below:


Playboy wannabe: Dude, why you always able to make girls wanna talk to you? Is there a secret spell or something?


Me: Well, you need to first throw away your desperateness like how you are right now. Female can "smell" desperate man, and it ain't welcoming for them.


Yes,

being desperate isn't something to be practiced around women at any time of the year, month, day... PERIOD.

If a man wants to be successful around women, he has to learn to be confident with their own skin, just be natural.

How to do that?
Practice.


I once brought a book with me in the outdoor and do "research" as an excuse to meet more women, try to get them to "assist" in my "research" by asking them intriguing questions that will sure spark interest in them.

Making sure to look good and calm along the way.

Women love to talk, seriously, let them do the talking as you ask questions
and you will be fascinated by the amount of information they would share to a total stranger.

Enjoy the process and keep your composure.
Practice a bit more with other women to get use to your new skin.


This is the first phase.
It took me a week or two to get used to it.
But once you know the spell, you wouldn't need to be the timid little man again.


However, explaining all these to that colleague isn't easy, as you can't teach an old dog new tricks.
He needs a wingman to discuss this to him, sadly, I'm not that close to him. What a shame *sarcastically*

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Second phase...

Be confident, but thy shall not be over self-assured...

To be continued....