Men-women Relationship Talk #2

Second phase...

Being confident, but thy shall not be over self-assured...

Few words... but packed with essence of the spell.

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I have this friend, who thinks he is hell of a great, showing off his charming personality and smile to females. Taking pictures with whole bunch of girls thinking that "Hey! I'm a playboy already!".

In truth, he is over self-assured.
Amazingly, until now that he has gone abroad, he still has no idea that among the girls that he "allegedly" go out on a date with, started talking about him behind his back.

Why I know?

Because some of the girls he dated/"dated" are actually my friends, they came back telling me how pathetic this friend of mine is.
(Please, let's remain silence for 2 minutes to remember my friend's inability to court a girl till now)
*sarcastic smile*


This is how the conversation goes:
(Fake names are used)

Lady Guava: Do you know? Your friend Jamiz Oliver says the weirdest thing ever? He started to call me baby, puppy and paprika all of a sudden when go out on a date? I HATED IT SO MUCH! 
Why he keeps on doing it? Then when we go out on a date, he brought me to Mc Donald's! 
DUDE! Why would any guy bring a woman to MC DONALD'S to impress her?


Me: Wow, isn't he "nice"? You're a lucky girl ;)


Lady Guava: Lucky? He is full of himself showing poses and talks like he is The belle of the ball, calling me honey and saying how much he misses me *vomits* even though we just knew each other. The worst thing is. Even after we finished dating and went home. He still call me saying how fun our date is...
Can't he even understand the signals I desperately sent to him??  


@#$%^&*(^%@#$%^*@#$%^&* (Trust me, you don't want to know what she said afterwards)


That's how it is. And that is not the only friend that told me about their negative feedback regarding Jamiz.
There are more to it from where it came from.

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So, what is the problem here?

I did say men should be confident when facing anyone, especially women.
This is because women are naturally attracted to men with this quality. 
Don't ask me why. It is hormone.


However, my friend Jamiz there express too much of this trait, too much for his own good until he been blinded by his self-assured trait to see what the women's signals are (I'll talk about women's body language in future entries).
He didn't sense the SOS the lady is sending, causing his blind confidence to commit seppuku to his date.

Needless to say, those girls have stop going out with him after their first date.

Morale of the story, be modest in being confident.
Composed, and you'll be rewarded.

I will be talking about how to portray confident physically in the next entry.

Till then,
Farewell.




PS: Due to a certain request from a female friend of mine, I have to write about how women should approach man in my future entry.

Seriously, I would consult a real expert first to write about that.   =.=